The fact that being the single child sometimes only one
grandchild, both mother and father is being worked, and the feeling of guilt by
showing lesser attention to their children cause almost all of the child's
requests to be fulfilled. This explains very well the sentence of "my
children get mad when what they want is not fulfilled". It is harmful to
insist on sharing in the 0-3 age range.
First Age Group in
Sharing
Children in this age think that everything they have the
emotional connection with the things that belong to them and they wants to
continue their posses. Ownership for the development of a healthy
"self-conscious" is extremely important. In this age range, asking
the child to share his or her staff and toys damages the child's development. After
completing the 3-year-old, the family may begin to make the point of sharing
gradually for the child. Especially giving examples of life are the most
effective methods. It is best shown to the father and the child who take two
foods and give one to the other. The sharing of some of your own food with your
child is also the best example of experiencing the concept of sharing.